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She mentioned the word “creep” a lot. A lot a lot. And that she didn’t want a male friend that secretly pined over her.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Hi,<\/p>\n

I’m intimidated but your combination of liking Lebowski, Muddy Waters and Arrested Development makes me press on. That and this whole Internet thing allows me to be a creep, but not a total creep. I’ve never pressed that “wink” button because I’m afraid it alerts the authorities. It should.<\/p>\n

In summation… the end.<\/p>\n

ps Aren’t male friends that secretly pine over you kinda creepy? I find it creepy when my male friends do this.<\/p>\n

I never got a response.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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